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Welcome back to the Disciplinary Couple's Club. Our weekly gathering of men and women who are in, or would like to "Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband" in, Domestic Discipline and Female Led Relationships. I hope you all had a great week. We had a good discussion last week regarding proactively preventing bad behavior, versus simply punishing it.

Several Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband shared their experiences with preventative spankings, and there seemed to be a general consensus that such spankings can help actually prevent bad behavior. This week, I was reminded that some punishments can both punish and prevent. My wife grounded me as punishment for night that involved a little too much carousing with work people, and the punishment was that I am grounded and "Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband" from drinking for a week.

So, the punishment both addressed the bad behavior and directly prevented further misbehavior by removing me from the situation that keeps getting me in trouble.

Our conversation last week also took off on a slight tangent into whether self-reporting and taking the initiative of bringing her the belt or paddle moves the DD relationship forward or, conversely, undermines her authority. That one may be worth a topic in the near future, though we've done variations of it before. For this week, let's talk about sex. Do I have your attention now? Of course I do. Yet, one of the reasons for this topic was an article I read this week that indicates that at the same time that attitudes toward sex are increasingly liberated and sexual imagery and content is more available than ever, Americans are actually having much less Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband than in the past.

One study of the GSS data showed that more than twice as many millennials were sexually inactive in their early 20s than the prior generation was.

And the sharpest drop was the most recent, in the years to The only age cohort fighting the trend was, interestingly, the one that seems to be among the largest of this blog's readership: I also ran across this fairly fascinating Politico article that compares the sexual fantasies of our two predominant political parties.

The survey it addresses found that, although Democrats and Republicans fantasize at similar rates, the content of those fantasies differs sharply. By contrast, self-identified Democrats were more likely than Republicans to fantasize about almost the entire spectrum of BDSM activities, from bondage to spanking to dominance-submission play.

The largest Democrat-Republican divide on the BDSM spectrum was in masochism, which involves deriving pleasure from the Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband of pain. While the article doesn't discuss it, one can see how that kind of discrepancy between fantasy and reality might create some "problems": Democrats, on the other hand, stress equality and egalitarianism and, hence, fantasies about extreme power differentials are inordinately appealing.

Perhaps when Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband sex is most egalitarian, fantasies involving exercising power come to the forefront: While interesting, the theory does seem a little simplistic. And, while Democrats are fantasizing about BDSM wouldn't their fantasies more naturally drift to sadism and not masochismgiven their rejection of "might makes right" and relative aversion using physical violence and power for political ends?

Or, perhaps it's that a lot of the Democratic party-line comes from elites in powerful institutions professors at Yale, Harvard, etc. It's all very interesting though very complicated. But, taking it down to a personal level, I have no doubt at all that I crave yielding up control to someone else, because in most of my life I have control and authority in over-abundance. Perhaps it's not just that we "Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband" about things that we can't or don't now have, but also perhaps about things that we think we missed out on, like strong maternal discipline or boundaries.

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The one concrete suggestion I have for a topic is, does practicing Domestic Discipline lead to more sex? And, some of our Disciplinary Wives admit candidly that they come to be turned on by exercising power even if it felt unnatural at first. I don't know whether power always corrupts, but I have no doubt it can Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband addictive.

On the other hand, I have seen instances in which parties tied discipline and sex too closely together, such that he would get spanked only after a hard spanking, which seems like a great way to make him adverse to sex in general. Or perhaps could it result in less discipline? I look forward to hearing from you all. Posted by Dan - A Disciplined Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband at 4: Our weekly gathering of men and women who are in, or want to be in Domestic Discipline and Female Led Relationships.

I hope you had a great week. Though, that's stressful in its own way. I'm in one of those careers in which my earning is more or less directly related to my level of busyness, so being slow tends to be a momentary relief but a longer term problem.

But, there's not much I can do about it, so I'll just try to enjoy the Fall weather and color, while hoping some big, hairy, audacious project walks in the door soon. Have Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband said how much I like this most naughty of holidays? Now that I've gotten that out of my system.

This weeks "topic," feels more like tying together some loose threads. We didn't get a lot of response to Alan's topic re: The former is on my mind this morning, as I wallow in my all-too-typical Saturday morning fatigue, because I stayed up too late watching a movie and enjoying too many beers along the way.

The shame of it is, I "Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband" actually been very well behaved all week, surprisingly so given the slowness at work. I worked out hard four days, kept to my diet, meditated every evening, and I even stayed totally dry right through Friday "Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband" we went out to dinner.

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Then, a couple of beers there led to a "nightcap" at home, which led to watching a James Bond movie until midnight. It reinforces the point I made to Alan, that some people just can't seem to do moderation in relation to certain habits.

So, by over-indulging I earned myself a good hard spanking this weekend. But, as I was kicking myself this morning, I got to thinking about how I could have felt a lot better this morning if, instead of letting me indulge myself, my wife had simply ordered me to come up to bed when she went. Admittedly, I would have resented the hell out of it at the time, but it would have helped me have a much more pleasant, productive weekend.

And, I would have complied. That's the thing I'm not sure my wife always appreciates -- I am not great at following rules when left to my own devices, even when I know it may earn me a hard spanking, but I am pretty good at following direct orders.

It's an interesting reversal on my normal life philosophy of, "It's better to say you're sorry than ask permission. But, when it comes to the behaviors that create problems for me at home and that are self-destructive, it actually is better for both of us if she takes the bull by the horns and acts to prevent the behavior from happening, instead of punishing it after-the-fact. I see "Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband" "prophylactic" approach as being one of the distinguishing Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband between "mere" Domestic Discipline versus being in "Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband" real "Wife Led Marriage.

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Somewhere in between are "preventative" spankings, which were alluded to in some of last week's comments. We've talked about this before, but it's been a couple of years. When it came up last time, it was in response to another comment by Alan. He summed up "preventative" spankings as follows: Her Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband was that if she was "Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband" to have to spank me eventually, she would prefer to avoid the behavior and get it done before rather than afterward.

Most preventatives are done several hours before a party or we get into the car to travel and designed to give me a warm bottom that reminds me what could happen. With one unforgettable exception this does work to prevent really bad public behavior.

When we talked about this last time, I had no real experience with this "before the fact" form of discipline, and I wasn't sure whether it was Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband "fair. But, she did do it once a few months ago, prior to a group dinner that was exactly the kind of event at which I normally might over-indulge. But, not that time. It worked like a charm.

Sitting there on my tender behind kept me continuously aware of the need to moderate my behavior and, for once, I did.

How much does your spouse focus on preventing bad behavior instead of just punishing it? Are preventative spankings part of that? What other techniques does she use?

Has it worked to prevent problem behaviors from occurring? What are the logistical challenges and how have you overcome them? Posted by Dan - A Disciplined Hubby at 9: Perhaps one regrets them the most. I really do love this season. Though, ironically, Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband often goes crazy this time of year and, as a result, I've missed Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband lot of Halloweens. It looked like that was going to happen this year, but things are looking better.

Although I love this time of year, neither it nor the break in the workload has fundamentaly changed some of my behavioral challenges. I did make some progress getting back on course after a pretty rough time at work, then it kind of fell apart at the end of the week. My efforts at self-control and progress on real self-improvement seem to come in bursts. She did this years ago with smoking and it worked but I was motivated to stop myself then although the discipline was a crucial part of it happening.

My question is can DD stop drinking entirely? I sound like I am whining and maybe I am but looking for an honest answer from anyone who might want to comment whether DD can really achieve Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband. Has anyone tried it and if so what happened?

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As I said in my reply to Alan's comment, I am hardly the guy to answer this one. Like him, I don't want to completely stop, and I do think that in my case doing so would have some negative career ramifications. It's just too big a part of my particular professional culture.

But, beyond that, I do like hanging out and having drinks with people at work and with friends of ours in the neighborhood.

The plain fact is, many social bonds are formed or fostered over a mug of beer or glass ofwine. I really don't want to give that up, though moderating it Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband be a great thing. But, I do wish I could get better about limits while continuing to imbibe socially.

I think some people are pretty binary when it comes to Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband habits -- it has to be either on or off and nothing in between really works. Alan also related his topic to our discussion of "bitchiness," I do think that something that would really help me in sticking to limits or not drinking at all in certain situations is if she would just tell me not to, and do it strongly, forcefully and consistently.

While I don't always succeed, I do try to obey when she gives me a direct order. So, maybe to make it work it has "Bdsm artwork disciplinary wife submissive husband" be some kind of stepped up bossiness, plus DD, plus the embarrassment Alan references, though I'd like to hear more about that latter one.

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