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Dating a woman going through a divorce

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For over the past two years, there has been an emotional parasite eating me from the inside out.

The pain is excruciating as it ebbs and flows like an ocean tide, some days stronger than others, but every day its presence is felt. This past year, I found myself ready to date and I was lucky enough to meet someone I truly connected with, but it was not to be.

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The dreaded almost-relationship reared its ugly head as emotional unavailability plagued what could have been. The endless cycle of thoughts constantly ruminating in my head.

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The what, why, and how that slowly seeps into every fiber of my being, dragging me further into the depths of despair. The screams of suicide penetrating my psyche, warping reality into a mosaic of self-deprecation.

Dealing with this pain, I feel like a hindrance to my friends and family, a pound suitcase of emotional baggage being pulled around and cared for by people who are tired of lugging around this extra weight.

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Free apps, paid sites, and quasi-free sites that all funnel to beauty contests and relationship resumes. It all leads to feeling more like shit than I already do, but the hope of finding someone to fill the loneliness in my heart invariably leads me to continue this path.

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I am then simply left where I began: I am a man who is trying to not repeat this dating cycle again until he has put himself back together and found the inner strength to accept his weaknesses and faults, while becoming the version he always wished he could be.

I am a person simply looking for the right answers to help guide me through this life; to help fight this battle that wages within me. Some days though, like today, I need to remind myself, that I am human, accept defeat and prepare to battle another day.

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